Learn to forgive yourself - Balance is the keyword.

As sayings goes:
You will only begin to heal, if you let go of the past hurts.
If  you can't face the person,
which is also  understandable, on your heart, forgive them those who have done you wrong,
and learn to forgive yourself for the mistakes you've done!

Take a deep breath, nd go into the  verbal process of forgiving youerself,
Embrace yourself.
Now feeling free !