Coping up

Things are not standing still. It is going up and down in this world. And in this life nothing is constant. We may experience sadness, loneliness, happiness

and excitements. It all depends on situations and it greatly depends on how you carry on

your way. Your happiness and success greatly depends on you, not on other people, contrary to what most people believe.

We may say, since we are the one responsible for ourselves, then it is up to us, alone, to decide which way we choose to go. With life's ups and down, you are subject to experience of any kind. Your experience are valuable for you any way you look at it, thinking that as grown-up you have to develop yourself further. In dealing all kinds of challenges

you are facing everyday in life, you have to bear in mind that these are part of life and you have to deal with it the best way you can. Analyze and do something on situations you have the possibility and ability to do something with, focus on it. Do not spend too much energy on things that you don't have the possibilities or influence to change. Be realistic at times!

Being sad sometimes, being lonely, are normal part of being alive. 
In life we experience both sadness and happiness.

I don't think you will truly experience the bliss of being happy and enjoyment in  life when you don't experience how it is to be real sad, lonely and blue. The key is to find the balance.
and there is no real problem but challenges. It is all for you to deal with, with the best of your ability. Asking help or assistance from someone is a possibility you have to deal with your challenges  and  to arrive at your goal. Your goal maybe to have a happy life.

As  grown up and matured, I find these challenges interesting. For it means that I have  the reason to think more,  I have the right attitude and the energy I need to work on it.
It is the kind of life I like. That's why i am keeping myself busy.
Meaning,  being busy dealing with all the challenges (not the problems)
The right attitude comes from my personal conviction that challenges are normal part of being alive. 
Life is supposed to be dynamic, changing, challenging!

And challenges are essences so the dynamic of life is sustainable! 

Now, being alone and kind of waiting! I feel a little bit sad actually, feeling blue! But i  am dealing on it the best way I can.

I put on the music that i like, helping me to cope up, helping me so I feel better. Music, books, anything of interest help you in this process. Go out in the fresh air, take a walk or meet people. Call a friend. You would surely lighten up their day too! You are not alone feeling blue.

So what you do is your decision. You decide for yourself. The choice that you made leads to consequence. Deal with it. Don't think that you take the wrong choice. Charge it to experience, then cope up and move onward.

At the moment, i'm sitting here, feeling blue, a little melancholic!, but i don't get panic.

It is part of life. and I am dealing with it... now... the best way I can.

Soon, with the help of music, i will feel fine. It is my choice to sit here, I could of course call up somebody, visit a friend, but I chosed to sit here until it is time for me to leave for work at  3 p.m.

You make a choice...everyday in your life without really thinking about it.
The  choice that you made leads to a consequence for you to deal with. 
 Remember: Think the right way, any experience contribute to your development.
Do not be sad when things seem to turn wrong, but learn something and charge everything

to experience.. 
You are coping up, and you master the situation. You do the right thing!

I like this word....Coping up! 
for it force me to go into a process, and it is a necessity to go through life's process
and coping up is the essential process in itself.

Me trying to cope up in my daily life.
My job, my shcool, my children, my friends, my family in the Philippines,,
my hobbies and interest, my blog, my FB friends and to nurture my romantic and social life.
My goal: To have a balance life as it is possible for me.